Showing posts with label PregnancyMusings❤. Show all posts
Showing posts with label PregnancyMusings❤. Show all posts

Thursday, December 8, 2016

34 weeks - Arguement with your daddy

Hello Jiselle,

How are you? Have you getting mummy food nutrition well enough!?  I had been trying real hard to control my food intake so that I can manage well with my gluose level.. Berry satisfied with my daily result but everything have to see how doc say next week.. Really hope i bring down some points, of course currently is still in the berry safe zone but your mummy, MI wanna do a even better job!!

Sorry for not giving what other mummies eat and drink!! Definitely for your own good.. 6 more weeks to go and let's work hard together! Definitely worth it...!

Sorry for not controlling my mood and temper for the past two nights.. Seem like I need to say ~ all thanks to your Daddy lah!! Told him many times liao yet he still let mi tears to sleep!! Whatever! Not like he will care when he is angry! Not like I wanna him to get any closer to mi when I'm in that mood!! Happy that once or twice ,my bad mood wun affect your growing, doesn't affect you!! Of course I will try my best not to be moody again but I need your daddy help too.. It takes two hands to clap ma right!!

First arguement

Totally forget what happened that night..! Definitely not berry serious argument lah cause I remember I never shed a tear lah.. but I remember you have beeen real active that whole day making mi super worry and scare.. And your daddy didn't bother abt me even when I told him this.. The only thing I can do was to tell you to hang in there for mummy at least for 4 more weeks..

Second arguement

Straight two nights mummy and daddy quarrelled.. This time Mummy totally brust out, totally cannot control her feeling, her mood.. And mummy cried, real hard!! Not that I wan but I really cannot control it at all.. Not berry serious but I juz cannot tahan, cannot control.. Your daddy did came in and  tried to stop mi but of coz not successful as usual!! Seem like he still can't put down his ego to stop mi..
Everything started when your daddy wanna discussed some stuffs regarding our helper who is coming in next week.. And mi, trying to stop his ridiculous thinking (like restricting helper how long she should eat her meal and how long she should do the stuffs and so on..!! Okay he explained and say he doesn't mean that!! He juz wanna range the timing!! Oh well!!) Of course this is not the main reason to make mi so piss off and even cried... Is his ego pride and attitude!! This really his super bad  character and I had been wanting him to change but tiger how to change his spot!! I know he tried but just not hard enough!! When stuffs didn't get his way, he sure get tensed up and his tat attitude will definitely flow in and led to mi getting frustrated.. okay not that I'm great but definitely better cause what he expected from mi, I did does it for him and den yes he get demanding liao lor.. whatever!! Changing is for both of us not for himself nor myself.. definitely right now is for us, for you too... I dun wish in future this will be his barrier between the both of you..

Hahaha! Yr daddy made the first move as he always does lah.. this time he made wonderful prefect move lah..
Thank you Daddy..!! Mummy love the surprise berry much!!

Tuesday, November 15, 2016

33 + 4 weeks ~ 7 more weeks to go

Hello Jiselle,

It's Mummy again!!
7 more weeks to go
Are you as excited as Mummy!!

Feeling your kick stronger each day.. Lucky mummy has reserve for you ya.. Although Mummy is getting more and more tired each day, especially when you kicked middle of the night and even on the move on the bus on the way to work but Mummy is feeling even more great when I feel your kick.. Definitely worth everything.. Dun worry about Mummy and continue your kicking..

Weight

Previously on 31 weeks
Total weight mummy gain ~ 6.8Kg
BB weigh ~ 1,870g

Right now 33 weeks
Total weight mummy gain ~ 7.5kg
Current BB weigh ~ 1.940g

Gynae praised Mummy that she doing berry well, maintain real good..

Let's continue to work harder and eat well together ya..

Update!

YES and Finally Daddy and Mummy confirmed our helper.. She called Sabiah auntie.. She will help Mummy to take care of the housework so Mummy can take care of you..

Mummy still feeling weird having a totally stranger at home staying with us but this really is the best arrangement for you...

Looking forward for your arrival lo..

6-7 more weeks to go hold you in my arm..


Sunday, October 30, 2016

31 + 3 weeks

Hello Jiselle,

Weight

Feeling excited each day and week had passed.. I can constantly feel your movement almost every day and night and the movement seem to be getting stronger and stronger. It getting REAL.. I really love feeling you..
Sometimes I think I gonna miss the feeling of you inside me...

Previously on 29 weeks
Total weight mummy gain ~ 6.9Kg
BB weigh ~ 1,316g

Mummy is super happy that you are growing well and getting all the nutrition mummy ate..
Total weight mummy gain ~ 6.8kg
Current BB weigh ~ 1.870g

Although Mummy is losing weight but as long as you are growing well, Mummy is fine and happy... By the way, not like I dun eat nor I have no appetite, just that I DUN EAT FOR TWO!! We are not supposed to eat for TWO anyway! Anyway as gynae mentioned ~~~ mummy got reserved weight for BB.. Whoopz!
Right now, Mummy still have to watch her diet to make sure you can grow even better.. Let's work hard together ya..

Over the weekend

Mummy ate way lots of food!
Last Friday, Mummy ate baked macaroni from Old Town coffee which tasted awful so she had ICED decaf latte from Starbucks to balance it before Daddy and Mummy went up to see you ~ (Did you remember how active you are when doctor scan mummy's stomach to see you...!! You are turning round just as if you are dancing!! Such a cutie!!..)
After that, Daddy and Mummy went to source for maid agency, hoping to settle it by that day but no hope.. Mummy is getting crazy and up her nerve already.. Lucky we have your Daddy.. Love you Daddy..
After all the walking and sourcing, we went to queue for 45 mins just to buy 2pcs Baked cheese tart before we headed to eat Dim Sum(Yi Dian Xin @ Paragon) ~ your daddy favorite when we went HongKong the other time.. We both missed it a lot..

On Saturday, a berry busy day for us.. Mummy went all the way to Anchorvale for CNY fitting and Mummy bot 3 more dresses.. Gonna stop shopping for quite awhile liao ba.. Maybe shop for you...?
After that, we went up to your Biao Yi house before going for birthday party at D'resort..
Nice isn't it..!
You will have one of your own when you are ONE.. Mummy promise you that you definitely have a beautiful memorable full month dessert table ya!
Did you remember what Mummy ate? Curry chicken and Jelly O cheesetart lei! AND Thank god, Mummy skipped the cake..

On Sunday, another food trail day and I think we gonna eat light for the next few days okay... We had dry fishball Kway Teow for breakfast, Chongqing steamboat for lunch and Starbucks ICED decaf latte with Tai cheong Egg tarts for tea break and KFC for dinner.. SINFUL isn't.. Which one do you like most..!!?

 Did you realized Mummy been eating lots of tarts recently..? Never been a fan of egg tarts de.. Could it be you? Hmmm..!

Daddy and Mummy had started packing our hospital bag. We know it's kinda early but we dun wish to miss out anything especially your needs when you are out to see the world...

Mummy gonna start washing all your cute little clothing, hanky, feeding bottles and everything.. Daddy gonna start fixing your bed, 'yao lan' in our cozy nest...

9 more weeks to pop and yr daddy and mummy really can't wait to hold a beautiful girl in their arms..

Thursday, October 20, 2016

Hello, Third trimester ~ 29 + 4 days!

Pardon mi!
Not sure if it was Braxton Hicks contractions taking the effect or not.. But I think it still too early to have it right... IDK!
But FINALLY, last night 29 + 4 days, for once I witnessed Baby Yin moved.. I was indeed super excited and overjoyed witnessing it.. Tears in my eyes too!
Okay sorry for being dramatic lah please Mummy Yin..
I still feel your stretching this morning.. YES I feel you.. No worries.. Mummy is okay and please give mummy more..

10 weeks to go

* As at 28 + 6 weeks, I've gained 5.9KG. I was 5.6 KG last month so I have slowed down a lot. Gynae was praised mi that for someone who just back from travelling(yes I went to HongKong last mth end and yes will update soon... whoopz!) just gain 200g..
Like how did I do that..
Frankly speaking, I ate a lot, really a lot.. There's a day we ate about 11 meals in a single day which include dessert and main course lah.. Still 11 meals was a lot man..
I kept pulling my Hubb leg, saying mi not so fortunate lah, no ppl to cook tonic and birdnest for mi lah, no durian lah.. He even offered to cook for mi if I really want it.. Okay Hubb, I'm just joking and I think for Baby Yin sake, you better forget this thinking.. In fact, my mil did make soup for mi everytime I went over to in law hse, just had stopped for a mth due to all the travelling and I haven't go there yet. This may be caused of slowing down weight gain.. Well, as long as Baby Yin is growing well and healthy..
Still, I have to watch my diet..

*One of my pregnancy joy is that I dun have to change to maternity clothes.. I still wearing my usual working outfits.. I did buy a few maternity skirt and jean but frankly speaking I totally no like it.. Maybe I wore it the wrong way..!
I remember months ago, I still worried the sizes I should get for my CNY clothes.. I believe I can stick to my usual size le ba.. Finger crossed!! Cause 1 shipment is on the way to Singapore from Taiwan.. Happy like a bird!!

* Still no much craving till date.. Was hoping to wake up in the middle of the night instructing Hubb to go buy roti prata or even Punggol nasi lemak for me lei.. :p
After weeks of not cooking, finally whipped out baked pasta and porridge with dishes for the past 2 dinner.. Okay I need a rest for the next few days, hmmm, weeks.. hmmmmmm...

* I'm still as tired as always.. No matter how tired I am, I will still wake up in the middle of the night to adjust my sleeping position and pillow as my lower back is killing mi.. Not possible to slp throughout the night.. Lucky enough, I stopped waking up to go to the toilet anymore.. There was once for a few weeks or months, I had to wake up 2-3 times for toilet..

* Baby stuffs finally settle almost everything.. WE bought the baby playpen last Friday, though we still dun have time to fix it up.. Well, we still have 10 more weeks to go right.. Whoopz! Definitely wanna get it done by end of this month..
Stopped buying Baby Yin clothes or did I..? PSST: another shipment is coming in the next 2 weeks or so..

*I'm still thinking if I wanna take up maternity shoot. Blame my previous fats!! My tummy isn't rounded nicely as I tot I will be, not as smooth as I tot I will be too.. Not the stretchmark that bothering mi but the scratch mark.. Stupid Hands and fingers lah!! SO right now, I still cannot make up my mind whether to take or not to take maternity shoot though ppl been telling mi all photos will be edited and filtered but still I cannot stop thinking otherwise..

Going into 30 weeks in 2 more days!! AND I think Hubb already forgotten that he promised to bring mi go celebrate de..!

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

29 weeks scan and Cousin wedding

It's been 3 weeks plus since I last seen my baby girl..
After a long wait(not like berry long lah, but juz can't wait to see and hear my baby girl..!), finally  get to see and hear my baby girl heart beat last Friday 14 Oct'16.
Always feel so touched!!

Thank you for being healthy and also absorbing all the mummy food intakes..
Mummy is losing weight while my baby girl gained weight.. Not a bad sign anyway isn't it!!
Gynae mentioned baby is in a good and healthy weight range..
Please continue to stay healthy and dun forget to give mummy yr kicks every night...

Seriously!!
I really dunnoe how to see my baby scan photo..
Beautiful bed of flowers
Attended Hubb's cousin wedding at the church.. First time attended church wedding and didn't expect it will be in a auditorium.. 
Anyway, thanks for inviting.. It was a great experience and eye opening experience..

Okay vain mi when saw a bed of beautiful flowers so not going to waste it..
Snap and snap!  
Went back home to rest before we headed off for second round of the wedding..
Tired die me!!
Knock off right after I washed up and slp straight 2 hrs before waking up to prepare..
Love the effort done by the newly wed!!

Menu and seat arrangement name tag
Table deco
Wedding gift ~ cactus
Simply love this kind of wedding rather than the traditional kind but well...
it's as costly ya...
Not going waste such a nice make up hor..


Training in process!
Jiselle, you see your daddy.. Getting prepared for you..

The food is yummy!
Photo booth taking earlier this morning!!
Wishing the newly wed ~ Ken and Hannah everlasting love!!!

Sunday, September 11, 2016

24th Weeks and counting

Deciding name

And and and

Our baby got her name too.. Yes... It's her ~ a baby girl.. Super excited and I started shopping already..

First name I came across and fall in love with it ~ Jezzebel. Isn't it sweet and beautiful..!! Who knows.. Hubb googled the meaning of the name and he totally objected it(cause mainly is evil meaning.. )  Anyway alot of my friends objected this name too.. One even say too flirty name liao.. SO I gave up this name..

Hello Jiselle~~

And So,
our baby girl name Jiselle.. Many voted this name too and most importantly our baby love it.. Really.. I have the sixth sense feeling she love it.. LOLL

Can't wait for our 20th weeks detail scan, that when everything confirm stable..

20 weeks scan

Had my detail scan with Thomson medical at Novena.. Wasn't went that smoothly at the beginning as Baby Jiselle wanna stick to her comfort zone, all curb up and hide at the bottom.. Doc have to press so hard just to measure everything..

However, Baby Jiselle gave her parents a super surprise before we ended the session, Hubb and I really shed a tear when we saw it.. When Doc say, Okay last shot and everything done...., next moment, baby Jiselle raised her hand by her ear!!! Doc say bb waving goodbye wor...

Melted!

Touched.. Teared..!!

Till date, Hubb and I still cannot forget the prefect moment ~ our baby girl gave us.. Just can't wait for my next scan!!

22 + 6 weeks

Kept mumbling where's my baby bump!!!

I still can't get the prefect baby bump shot to share it.. Oh man.. Blame my fats! I think Hubb gonna kill mi soon.. Every now and then, I will ask Hubb, do I look preggy? Can see my baby bump?? HAHAHA!! As usual, I still waiting for your movement and kick.. Blaming my fats again!!

Zika Attack ~ reached Yishun already and it's getting mi more and more paranoid.. I agreed I wasn't that concern till the new mentioned that there's a case in Yishun which is totally no link to the Aljunied cases, meaning new case lei.. How not to worry!! If say I'm paranoid, can you imagine how paranoid my Hubb can go to..!! Well, I dun blame him lah as I know he meant well for both mi and baby Jiselle..

Stupid mosquitos lah!

Just hope the 2 pregnant women will be fine and recover soon... and hoping for this attack to tide down real soon lor!!

23 + 1 weeks

DaddyYin saw yr movement for the second time.. This time round he managed to grab my mobile just to capture the prefect moment for MummyYin.. And we can't stop watching the video over and over again, smile to ourselves.. BabyYin love spicy food just like MummyYin, so DaddyYin please buck up ya, if not how you going to bring us out for yummlicous food ar..!!

Stupid DaddyYin decided to disturb you from your sleep by shining the touchlight from his mobile on MummyYin's tummy.. MummyYin feel you, feel your jump!! DaddyYin missed it and he tried again the next following day... YES.. Mummy Yin feel you again and scolded DaddyYin, telling him off that I will help you revenge de... But BabyYin, please dun blame your daddy cause he really excited and really wanna feel your kick, feel your movement..
To be frank, Mummy Yin at times also wanna do it again.. HAHAHA!
But no worries... No more next time!

24 + 1 weeks

11 Sept 2016 ~ Daddy and Mummy 11 years dating anniversary. We decided to announce your gender to the world, to our group of friends on this special day..

Love sharing the joy together with you!!

Just always remember Daddy and Mummy always love you!

Sunday, August 7, 2016

RINVIN're going to be Parents!!

Writing this post when I'm in my 17th weeks.. (Yeah!!)

Finally passed the sensitive 3 months ~ 12 weeks of silent...
Happy that we had passed that period and let's not beat around the bush and lay it on straight...


Yes I'm pregnant!!

No more shhhhhh...

I have been waiting to announce and now that I can finally spill the beans... It had been so hard keeping hum and sitting on the news.. Especially when family and friends keep asking when we wanna have our own and blah blah blah so on.... Even when I heard friends announcing they were pregnant....

Trying period
As you may have read it, I lost my precious one last Sept'15 and Hubb and I been trying hard since then even though Doc recommended to wait at least a year..
Been super paranoid over months and months, trying all ways and methods, from lying flats from mins to pillow underneath yr butts.. Hahaha.. Yes you may be laughing but I really try it all..
And
Conclusion is pillow under yr butts is definitely a myth.. If it's inside, it is...
At last, I decided to buy the ovulation kits from TaoBao (oh man this is really creeps....!) It works wonders!!! I been recommend my friends who is trying to use it.. It definitely help a lot, at least for my case..

First try and Bomb...

I have super irregular menses which make mi even harder to keep track my most fertile period..

I super recommend the ovulation kits..

Of coz dun have to buy those from Watson la.. There's plenty ppl selling in Carousell, or you can just get it from Taobao.. It works the same.. Mine is from Taobao anyway.. 1 pc abt 20 cents, why not...

First Scan

Feeling so much relieve when Gynae confirmed my pregnancy.. My heart was jumping so fast that I can't catch my breath at all.. I bet Hubb feels the same too..

Due to my previous loss, Gynae was also kinda paranoid, same goes to Hubb and myself.. Was given a injection to protect the womb and the baby plus oral medicine too.. I'm having spotting at that time too..

Second/Third Scan

One fine day, I was bleeding than the usual spotting.. Was so worry that I rushed to see gynae.. Feel so relieve when gynae confirmed the heart beat and assure everything is just fine..

But I was given 1 month of bed rest hospital leave for me to have to good rest at home..

Surprisingly, I didn't gain weight in fact I lose abit of my weight.. Was quite worry abt it at the beginning..

Fourth Scan

Everything started to settle down. Feeling more relax already.. I'm glad everything turn out well and smooth..

Heartbeat normal!

Size normal!

My weight just a few hundred grams gain, but Gynae assure mi that everything is fine as long as Baby is growing well..

Did Panaroma test (DNA test) turn out fine too and we know the gender already..

Hubb dun wish mi to announce it so soon.. So gonna wait till Sept, till Hubb announced it in his FB.. *Roll eye* But I like..

Pregnancy announcement

Decided to use Hubb instead of myself in our announcement photo.. Still feeling bad toward Hubb... But it is absolutely no wrong way to announce it like this ma.. Horr..

Main reason is SPECIAL ~ Dun you think so~~~~!? At least I think so la.. 

Another reason is I can't find the prefect shot for the announcement.. Dunno why every photos cannot make it.. Kinda sad lah.... Jin long bo selfies liao lo...


Feeling so great right now.. Can't wait for my next visit for detail scan~~~~